"You are what you eat"
This is a saying,i've heard over the past few years.
I never really understood it,till i saw people becoming rounder by the day at the local sweets shop.
Haha.
But i did however realize something different.
"You are become who you stay with."
Lately,I've observed many people getting into relationships.
And the changes i've observed,are pretty much absurd..!
For instance,I have an old college friend,who i'm still in contact with.
This girl has gone from dumb,to dope,to rogue,and now she's a dumb blonde.
And surprisingly,the number of times she has changed her attitude,has directly happened after getting into a relationship with a new boy.
Wow,imagine,changing four times in 2 years.
Another example is of a girl,i practically see every single day.
She went from trying to fit in,completely phased out,jerkish,and then all of a sudden,went all silent.
And now,she's in a relationship with a boy who influences her so much,that the language she uses is horrifying,pathetic,uncouth and utterly despicable.
Sad.
This girl was once a person i could actually talk to.
And today,i choose silence over making conversation with her.
What many women do not realize is,that it is fine to give your undivided attention to your man.
But please,ladies,set your standards a little high?
Why are you willing to change men like seasons ?
Why are you willing to change your lifestyle to such an extent that you start talking crassy.
Why can you just not find people who are bearable ?
If other people can't stand him,there must be a reason behind it. Why would you wanna change yourself for a man who cannot change for the world?
This doesn't only influence your lifestyle and living standards,but also your speech.
Please,for christ's sake,DO NOT become who you are with.
Men like it when you listen to them. And if they claim to like you (or love you) enough,they won't allow you to change yourself for the worse.
So please,hold on to who you are.
You are a unique individual. Do not emulate another human being.
This is a saying,i've heard over the past few years.
I never really understood it,till i saw people becoming rounder by the day at the local sweets shop.
Haha.
But i did however realize something different.
"You are become who you stay with."
Lately,I've observed many people getting into relationships.
And the changes i've observed,are pretty much absurd..!
For instance,I have an old college friend,who i'm still in contact with.
This girl has gone from dumb,to dope,to rogue,and now she's a dumb blonde.
And surprisingly,the number of times she has changed her attitude,has directly happened after getting into a relationship with a new boy.
Wow,imagine,changing four times in 2 years.
Another example is of a girl,i practically see every single day.
She went from trying to fit in,completely phased out,jerkish,and then all of a sudden,went all silent.
And now,she's in a relationship with a boy who influences her so much,that the language she uses is horrifying,pathetic,uncouth and utterly despicable.
Sad.
This girl was once a person i could actually talk to.
And today,i choose silence over making conversation with her.
What many women do not realize is,that it is fine to give your undivided attention to your man.
But please,ladies,set your standards a little high?
Why are you willing to change men like seasons ?
Why are you willing to change your lifestyle to such an extent that you start talking crassy.
Why can you just not find people who are bearable ?
If other people can't stand him,there must be a reason behind it. Why would you wanna change yourself for a man who cannot change for the world?
This doesn't only influence your lifestyle and living standards,but also your speech.
Please,for christ's sake,DO NOT become who you are with.
Men like it when you listen to them. And if they claim to like you (or love you) enough,they won't allow you to change yourself for the worse.
So please,hold on to who you are.
You are a unique individual. Do not emulate another human being.
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