Just Breathe

Hey there!
I hope each and every one of you are doing well.
Well, since my last blog post, i've taken the back seat in life. 
I have done absolutely nothing, and by absolutely nothing, I mean ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. 
HAHA!

Other than the unproductive month, I have come to realize something. 
People envy you, when you have time on your hands.
See, everyone is busy running around, doing errands, getting to work, running around for work, college, etc.
And, here i am, sitting at home, in my air conditioned room, watching rom-coms, various tv shows, and not giving a damn in life x).

Other than the obvious relaxation time, I got a tattoo :D
So, I got the quote, "C'est La Vie", with a crown next to it, inked on my arm. 
"C'est La Vie", is a french quote that stands for "That is life / Such is life."

I'm sure many of you may wonder, "Why would anyone get a french quote tattooed on their arm?!"
Well, as funny as it may sound, in every situation i've been through over the past 21 months, i've never failed to use these words.
I suppose that is the power of words, right ?
The lesser they are, the more weight-age their meaning carries.

I won't enforce this on anyone, but honestly, the next time you're in a pickle, or you feel your plans aren't going according to your expectations, just breathe, and say, "C'est La Vie."
You wanna know why ? 
Cause these three words, can give you inner peace and solace in just seconds.
When you realize, that this is life, such is life. 
Things don't go according to plans, they follow their own course. 
The better you feel when you forgive and let go.

So, C'est la vie, boys and girls. Don't sweat it. Just take a deep breath, and let go ! 

P.S.- I'll be getting more tattoos done. Keep you posted.
Love and blessing xx

Never alone

“You’re right.
I don’t know what it’s like to be a part of the crowd.
I don’t know what it’s like to be unloved.
I don’t know what it’s like to look at a building and want to throw yourself off it.
I don’t know what it’s like to drink until you can’t remember why you started drinking.
But, I sure as hell know what it’s like to feel as if you’re drowning in your own tears.
I know what it’s like to be in so much pain, the only relief you get is by ripping apart your own skin to watch the blood trickle away.
I know what it's like to be hit and broken.
I know what it's like to have everything you love, be taken away from you right in front of your eyes.
I know what it’s like to shut down and give up.
To disappear.
To feel...
Dead.
I know.
Because, that was me.
But, I rose from the pain. 
Started anew.
So don’t ever think you’re alone.
Because you’re not the only one.” 

So, I wrote this down with a few people in mind. Many of us go through traumatic things in life.
Some of us, may go through miniscule things and yet, that could be considered the most traumatic thing for you.
There are times you'd like to shut everyone out, get away, runaway, hide. 
There are times you'd like to end it all and give it up, in one shot.

For all of those going through this, and reading this, remember, there are people out there who are willing to hear you out. They're willing to help you through this phase in your life.
Don't give up on yourself and your life. 
You aren't alone xx

 

Much love !

HNY !!

Happy New Year, to everybody!
 God bless each and every one of you!
I hope that this year, you accomplish what you want and gain abundant happiness.
And, if there's anything I could do to help, feel free to lemme know.
Have a blessed year.
Much love xx

That's a Wrap!

Well, it's the last sunday of the year, and the last few days of the year.
Umm... 
Let's get down to a few things.

First off, I'd like to take the opportunity to thank all the people who are my ardent readers, and who keep asking me to put up a blog post every now and then.
I apologize for not being regular. That shall most certainly change as i've started bringing a routine into my life.

Secondly, I'd like to think about all the lessons i've learned over the past 12 months.
A few favourite lessons are:

"People are temporary, unless they make an effort to stay."
"You find people who feel like family, even though they're miles away."
And, my personal favourite, "C'est La Vie".

I've learned recently about my new found happiness, that doesn't rely or dwell with society rules.
And, my mother is very supportive of my decision of not conforming to these rules.
So, a hearty Thankyou goes out to my mum <3

I've learned that, sometimes, you have to walk away from certain things or people, just to know if they're actually worth waiting for.

Also, i've learned that not many people understand your dreams. 
Even if it's your bestfriend, they may just call it a preposterous idea, and get you to stop following it.
Don't!
Follow your dreams. In silence. Remember, tomorrow, that friend of yours may become a stranger, but if you pursue your dream, you're bound to be happier. 
Nothing comes without fear or lessons learned. So, always take your chances, no matter what the odds.
Cuz, what's a life worth living, if you're not really living life?


And, finally, don't let the opinion of others, hamper your lifestyle in any manner.
People talk, a lot. But, like they say, "don't lose your sleep, over the opinions of sheep."
Sparkle, and shine bright.
God bless you guys with abundant happiness!
Here's to 2014, for all the lessons learned.
And 2015, to accomplish something meaningful.
Till next year, folks!
Amen. cheers xxx

Freedom

“Freedom means the opportunity to be what we never thought we would be.”

-Daniel J. Boorstin

To many people, the word “freedom”,means so many different things.

As I looked around a room full of people, whilst chewing down  a delicious vanilla tea cake, I figured I’d step into their shoes, and look at freedom through their perspective.

Among the 4 chosen ones, I started with the eldest.

An old man, aged about 84, sat across from where I was, sipping on a hot cup of coffee. I looked at life, through his perspective. To him, freedom was getting out, in the real world. Freedom was getting the entire Sunday off, and being able to spend it with his Grandchildren. It was getting out of the old age home, experiencing simple joys of life, with a little different sort of happiness. Sharing icecream with his Grand children, Soaking in the sun, Walking in the park with them, watching them play. And, ending the day, with nothing more than a simple cup of hot coffee, and a heart filled with sheer content.

The second person I chose, was a lady in her mid-forty’s. She sat quietly in a corner, reading a romantic novel, while I tried making eye contact. I couldn’t help but imagine the kind of freedom she yearns for. To her, Freedom would mean, getting time after seeing  her children off. Kissing her husband Goodbye. Getting done with the household chores. Reading a book, going out shopping with her mates. Freedom, was being on her own, and cherishing precious moments, with herself.

The third living being I chose, was a dog. Dog, a man’s bestfriend. And, this one, sat by his blind master. To him, freedom meant long walks, guiding his master, spending time with him. Dogs really cherish being with humans. So, being a vital part in a human being’s life, is the kind of freedom, every dog yearns for. It’s their little paradise. This little German Shepard seemed very content sitting by his master, and chewing on an succulent bone.

The last one, was a pretty little girl, aged about five.

To her, freedom meant pretty bubbles, crayons, balloons, and her loving family. She scribbled on a blank piece of paper, with not a care in the world. To her, freedom was the way she lived. Not being restricted. She quite enjoyed being able to do what she liked. And, the smile that she gave to her parents, was priceless.

So, what does freedom mean to me?

With my birthday around the corner, I realize my teenage years are coming to an end. A sense of happiness followed by stark realization, sinks in. Being a teenager, gives you a right of passage, to do whatever you like( Atleast, that’s what everyone tells you!)

According to me, age doesn’t define your maturity level. But, it takes a lot of time, to actually get down to understanding that.

Freedom to me, is when I’m wise enough to know that I’m allowed to do something, but maturity kicks in, and allows me not to.

Freedom isn’t like a bird. It can’t sore high whenever it feels like. It can’t take flight, as and when it wishes to.

But freedom, is when you know, instinctively, that you’re ready to take flight. Freedom, is having full confidence in yourself, to take a chance, and make a step!

Freedom, is being yourself, without a care in the world. Freedom, is dressing up, the way you like.

Freedom, is accepting yourself the way you are, and loving it!

“Expose yourself  to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”

Double crossed

Have you ever been backstabbed?
Well, with the latest trend of being "two - faced", i'm sure everyone reading this, might have been a victim, atleast once in the past.

I'd like for you to read the following story.

There was a foreigner. She shifted to India, and didn't have many friends.
She liked a boy, and she was very upfront about it. 
The boy was dating a pretty girl, and he thought it'd be fun, if his girlfriend, and his admirer became friends.
So, he introduced them to each other.
 Months passed by, and surprisingly these girls, became the best of friends. 
 The girl broke up with her boyfriend, yet continued being friends with his admirer.

The foreigner although, wasn't familiar with the "Best Friend Code", which stated that any ex of your bestfriend, is off limits.
She continued to like this boy, and hung out with him, knowing that her best friend would be uncomfortable with it.
But, the bestfriend was forgiving, and chose to turn away from the reality.

Years later, they were still thick friends.
The foreigner was still single, but the other girl found another suitable boy.
She planned out an entire future with him.
And, being the better friend that she is, she chose to introduce her bestfriend and boyfriend.

Months later, they drifted apart. She expected her friend to stand by her side, and be there for her.
But guess what she did?

She not only wasn't there for her friend, but, she started hanging out with her bestfriend's ex.  They started calling each other family. 
And the bestfriend was dumped, yet again

What do you make, out of all that ?
Double crossed, by the same girl. 
Like wow! 
Betrayal. 
The worst part about betrayal, is that it never comes from the people you think are your enemies.
I suppose people usually follow this quote that goes something like this :

"Intelligent people Ignore"

Well, i suppose it was hard for me to take it all in. 
Forgiving and ignoring might be the safest option.

 All i can say is, never trust a person of the same gender TOO much.
Yes, there can be a TOO much, sometimes.
#stay safe. Keep yourself safe. 
And, don't invest yourself too much into a person. 
 REMEMBER :

Mother Dearest!

 

They say that you choose your family, before you set foot into this world.

In that case, i am grateful for having the opportunity of choosing my parents!

Well, last year, this month, i lost my father.

My mom and i, felt rather cheated upon.

Yes, We've been through so many hurdles in the course of one year.

Not saying that people don't face challenges in their everyday life.

But how often does one recover from the loss of a loved one.

I look up to this woman, because everyday, i see her wake up, smile and put on a 

brave front!

I am proud of having the privilege to call her my mother.

For even in the darkest of moments, where no one could find hope,

or see even the faintest of light creeping in through the tiniest of

cassavas, she saw it, endured it, and made it more clear.

She is what I call A Warrior,A messiah, A beautiful soul.

Not many people know this, but i've been through a transition period.

I've matured over night, and alongside, as did my mother.

So, here's to beauty and brains, Courage and strength,

Brave and Bright!

Happy birthday,my Cheetah! 

I love you, forever and always!

Till the end of eternity!

God Bless you, for you deserve happiness to walk into your life.

I'm blessed to have you in my life,mom!

Love you xx