Saturday, 18 October 2014

Freedom






To many people, the word “freedom”,means so many different things.

As I looked around a room full of people, whilst chewing down  a delicious vanilla tea cake, I figured I’d step into their shoes, and look at freedom through their perspective.



Among the 4 chosen ones, I started with the eldest.

An old man, aged about 84, sat across from where I was, sipping on a hot cup of coffee. I looked at life, through his perspective. To him, freedom was getting out, in the real world. Freedom was getting the entire Sunday off, and being able to spend it with his Grandchildren. It was getting out of the old age home, experiencing simple joys of life, with a little different sort of happiness. Sharing icecream with his Grand children, Soaking in the sun, Walking in the park with them, watching them play. And, ending the day, with nothing more than a simple cup of hot coffee, and a heart filled with sheer content.



The second person I chose, was a lady in her mid-forty’s. She sat quietly in a corner, reading a romantic novel, while I tried making eye contact. I couldn’t help but imagine the kind of freedom she yearns for. To her, Freedom would mean, getting time after seeing  her children off. Kissing her husband Goodbye. Getting done with the household chores. Reading a book, going out shopping with her mates. Freedom, was being on her own, and cherishing precious moments, with herself.



The third living being I chose, was a dog. Dog, a man’s bestfriend. And, this one, sat by his blind master. To him, freedom meant long walks, guiding his master, spending time with him. Dogs really cherish being with humans. So, being a vital part in a human being’s life, is the kind of freedom, every dog yearns for. It’s their little paradise. This little German Shepard seemed very content sitting by his master, and chewing on an succulent bone.



The last one, was a pretty little girl, aged about five.

To her, freedom meant pretty bubbles, crayons, balloons, and her loving family. She scribbled on a blank piece of paper, with not a care in the world. To her, freedom was the way she lived. Not being restricted. She quite enjoyed being able to do what she liked. And, the smile that she gave to her parents, was priceless.

So, what does freedom mean to me?

With my birthday around the corner, I realize my teenage years are coming to an end. A sense of happiness followed by stark realization, sinks in. Being a teenager, gives you a right of passage, to do whatever you like( Atleast, that’s what everyone tells you!)



According to me, age doesn’t define your maturity level. But, it takes a lot of time, to actually get down to understanding that.



Freedom to me, is when I’m wise enough to know that I’m allowed to do something, but maturity kicks in, and allows me not to.

Freedom isn’t like a bird. It can’t sore high whenever it feels like. It can’t take flight, as and when it wishes to.

But freedom, is when you know, instinctively, that you’re ready to take flight. Freedom, is having full confidence in yourself, to take a chance, and make a step!



Freedom, is being yourself, without a care in the world. Freedom, is dressing up, the way you like.

Freedom, is accepting yourself the way you are, and loving it!