"Sometimes,when two people love each other,everything seems easy.
Life isn't all about that. It's way more complicated and so is love.
If you love someone dearly,you have to someday part.
Only to see if the love you share,will someday break all conflicts and bring you'll back together.
Cuz,at the end of the day,it's the bond that you share,that keeps you going,no matter the distance"
So,everyone feels that these relationships that last forever,have some element that keeps them bound together.
Well,i was living in that delusion as well!
All the people that fall into my age category,are or might have experienced love atleast once.
So,i asked my bestfriend the other day,"How have you sustained a good relationship with your boyfriend for 4 years,despite the distance?"
She replied saying,"Love isn't something that keeps you together. Yes,we do have our fair share of fights,but at the end of the day,it's the willingness to be with the person,that keeps us strong."
When she told me this,i got down to thinking.
Is it so ?
What is "love"?
Is it just a word,we give to something that you feel strongly towards a person?
Is it something that you name when you're willing to be there for a person?
Or is it affection?
What is it?
Cuz honestly,i love my cats! I really love them! But love has different meanings.
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I have friends who i treat like family. I love them as well. I fight with them as well.
Yes,we have our own opinions towards a billion things,and apparently,this is where the problem starts!
Opinions.
When two dominating people come together,the relationship is hard to sustain.
Because neither of them is willing to change.
It's tough,cuz you love this person,with all that you are.
And the feelings are reciprocated.
But it's hard.
No,it isn't wrong to believe in what you do.
But,people have to change. Not only because of/for love.
But,because that's the way life is.
Change is constant. Doesn't mean you change people everyday,but you change yourself and live peacefully.
Remember,change is constant. Even if you have two dominating people,both must change.
Love is eternal,not something that is conditional.
Don't confuse life with all of this.
Life gets in the way of love and vice versa.
Life isn't all about that. It's way more complicated and so is love.
If you love someone dearly,you have to someday part.
Only to see if the love you share,will someday break all conflicts and bring you'll back together.
Cuz,at the end of the day,it's the bond that you share,that keeps you going,no matter the distance"
So,everyone feels that these relationships that last forever,have some element that keeps them bound together.
Well,i was living in that delusion as well!
All the people that fall into my age category,are or might have experienced love atleast once.
So,i asked my bestfriend the other day,"How have you sustained a good relationship with your boyfriend for 4 years,despite the distance?"
She replied saying,"Love isn't something that keeps you together. Yes,we do have our fair share of fights,but at the end of the day,it's the willingness to be with the person,that keeps us strong."
When she told me this,i got down to thinking.
Is it so ?
What is "love"?
Is it just a word,we give to something that you feel strongly towards a person?
Is it something that you name when you're willing to be there for a person?
Or is it affection?
What is it?
Cuz honestly,i love my cats! I really love them! But love has different meanings.
\
I have friends who i treat like family. I love them as well. I fight with them as well.
Yes,we have our own opinions towards a billion things,and apparently,this is where the problem starts!
Opinions.
When two dominating people come together,the relationship is hard to sustain.
Because neither of them is willing to change.
It's tough,cuz you love this person,with all that you are.
And the feelings are reciprocated.
But it's hard.
No,it isn't wrong to believe in what you do.
But,people have to change. Not only because of/for love.
But,because that's the way life is.
Change is constant. Doesn't mean you change people everyday,but you change yourself and live peacefully.
Remember,change is constant. Even if you have two dominating people,both must change.
Love is eternal,not something that is conditional.
Don't confuse life with all of this.
Life gets in the way of love and vice versa.